Wagner: Kay was born on Sept 15, 1925, to William George Akehurst & Eileen (nee Shilito) Akehurst, at Paygate Cottage, Ringmer, Sussex England. In 1928 a brother, Arthur George joined the family. They were a happy family, until the anxiety of War came and much changed. Her Father (Grandad to us children) enlisted in the Army, and later, her brother (Uncle Arthur) enlisted in the Navy. Kay at 14 yrs, trained as a Children’s Nurse, and cared for orphans and evacuated children for 2 years. At that time, she moved on, to serve in The National Fire Service, stationed near home, in Lewes Sussex England. During those years, she met her handsome soldier, and future husband, David Norman Wagner, 3RD CANADIAN DIVISION SIGNALS, from Minnedosa MB Canada.
On July 1st 1943, Dave & Kay were married in Ringmer Sussex. In 1944, 2 weeks after D Day, Dave with his Division was sent to France, and from there they moved up the coast to other locations.
On July 15 1944, daughter Shirley was born and Mum waited for almost a year for Dad to meet his daughter, which finally happened, in June 1945. After an all too short visit, Dad went back overseas, and very shortly after that, Peace was declared. Later in 1945, Dad visited his family in Ringmer, and then set sail for Canada.
In February 1946, Mum and Shirley sailed from Liverpool to Canada on the HMS SCYTHIA. About 2 days later, during a storm at sea, the ship broke down, and had to be towed back to Belfast Ireland, for repairs. The trip from there forward, was smooth, and 10 days from the original departure, they docked in Halifax Nova Scotia, at PIER 21. In short order, they and many others, were on the train, and headed west, making many stops along the way, where Mothers and children, got off to face their unknown future!
Mum and Shirley were met in Winnipeg by Dad and after a few days, made their way to Minnedosa, where they were met by several of Dad’s family, and subsequently, many others from firstly, the Willow Grove community.
Over the years, Dad and Mum’s family grew to include, Christine Ann, Garry Stephen, Donna Lyn, Beverly Jean, Terrygail, and, lastly, wee Timothy David, who arrived and stayed with us for only a few short hours, but left his touch on the hearts of all of us. We all have rich memories of Dad and Mum’s love and care, for each of us over many years!
It was Mum’s delight to keep in touch with other warbrides and to meet many more over the years, with whom she had so much in common. Mum became a member of the SK & later on, the Manitoba Warbrides Associations and a highlight for her was their annual gathering each year.
Life began on The Farm! SO Much was new & different, and even frightening at times. Family & good neighbors did much to help with this new lifestyle, and that was remembered by Mum for all the years since. Mum loved to tell her story, and gave much credit to her in-laws and neighbors, for good natured help in her new life as a farmer’s wife.
Dad and Mum, lived in many locations over the years, as life brought changes. Willow Grove School District, Minnedosa, Gilbert Plains, Brandon, Biggar SK and, lastly, Souris MB.
Mum kept her ties with her homeland very much “alive,” and over the years made several trips back to England, one of the most memorable being in 1980, when she could show Shirley all the things, places, and many of the people that Shirley had no memory of, but had heard about all her life. It was Mum’s delight, that some of her grandchildren also visited her homeland, over the years.
It was also a Joy, to Mum to have firstly, her mother visit Canada in 1957, her brother Arthur, a couple of years later, and over the years, her three Aunties, Sister in Law Judy, as well as nieces, Sally and Nicola. Several cousins also came to Canada. John and Jean Akehurst, Karen Akehurst and Di and Mel Watts. One sure way to get Mum’s attention was to have an English accent or for her to find out that one had English history, or had visited there!!
Dad and Mum enjoyed the friends they made in every location in which they lived. We children soon learned, that “home” was where Dad & Mum were living, and we too, enjoyed their friends over the years!
Dad and Mum instilled in all of us, a Love and Respect for God,. They were very active in their church, wherever they were living, participating in church activities and making many and enduring, friends!
Mum was predeceased, by our Dad in 2005, (her husband of 62 years), her two daughters, and wee son. Terrygail in 1989, Timmy in 1964, Beverly in 2016, Her Parents, George and Eileen,and her Brother Arthur, as well as Sons in law Wendell Watchorn , and Arnold Simpson. She is survived by her remaining children, and spouses Shirley, (Souris MB), ChrisAnn, and Mel Brown ( Brandon MB), Garry and Delores Wagner (Innisfail AB), Dennis and Donna Shaw (Hinton AB), and Dean Murray (Gilbert Plains MB), Sister in law, Judy Akehurst, Nieces, Sally Wood & Nicola Akehurst-Curzon, Sisters in law, Irene Sigurdson, and Lillian Wagner, and numerous cousins in England. Mum was Very Proud of her Grandchildren & Great grandchildren. Shirley’s family: Tim and Gloria,(Kelsey and Liam) Chestermere AB, Donavon and Nora Hill, West St Paul MB (Brandon & Danielle Hill ~ Winnipeg, Kristen ~ Ottawa ON, Amy ~ Regina SK, & Spencer ~ West St. Paul, MB) , Kevin and Ila Rhodey (Shayla ,Jared) Selkirk MB, ChrisAnn,’s family; Karrie Smyth (Carter, Taylor) Brandon MB , Roger and Leanna, Watchorn (Brendon (Kennedie), Carly Lyn, Ty) , Minnesota USA, David Watchorn, Singapore. Garry’s family; Allison & Scott Cannam, Innisfail AB, Ron, and Karolyn Spence (Colby, Ethan) Eckville, AB, Adam and Dana Loucks (Adison, Wyatt) Red Deer, AB, Donna’s family; Cory & Crystal Michie, (Hannah, Ryker, Ever) Hinton AB, Kevin and Tammy Shaw ( Dana, Davi) Hinton AB. Beverly’s family; Bob and Pauline Murray (Madden, Emmett) Dauphin MB, Errol and Abby Karlson, (Storm, Boston, Forrest) Dauphin MB TerryGail’s family; Andrew & Breanna Yeo (Jasper, Nathalia), Sherwood Park AB, Kevin and Ashley Winkel, (Ava Grace, Jackson) Sherwood Park AB, Jordan and Michelle Esau (Annalee, Reid, Grace) Chilliwack BC.
Mum missed Dad Very much, but she involved herself with people, & kept busy. Her move to The Souris Personal Care Home, was the hardest move she made, but when all the facts were in front of her, she made the choice herself. As is not uncommon in such cases she often wanted to go back to the Lodge, but gradually she accepted her lot, & a precious memory is her statement a short while ago, “This is my home now!” Mum valued her caring Dr & cheerful Care Givers.
We as family will slowly get used to Dad & Mum no longer being with us, but we DO have a wealth of Precious Memories, to draw on often & to share with each other. We owe so much to their Love, & Care through the years. They leave us with Grateful hearts, for an Enduring Example, & for the Security of their Love.
12 thoughts on “Wagner, Kathleen (Kay) Mary”
Condolences to Kay’s families.
From Murray and Wendy Reiner
Sincere sympathy to Kay’s family. It was a privilege to have met Kay at Victoria Park Lodge and to visit her at PCH.
From Teenie Carlisle
Sincere Sympathy to you and your family. I always remembered your Mom to be such a Beautiful Lady, and loved to hear her accent. May your warm memories help you all through this difficult time.
We would like to express our deepest sympathy to Kay’s family. Kay was a special lady and we will miss her deeply.
You have no idea how sorry I am to hear this. I thoroughly enjoyed visiting with Kay on Sundays when I went to see mom and she was such a great advocate for the folks in the PCH. Thank you for that Kay! She was such an interesting person and was genuinely interested in hearing how my week was. She loved her family so very much and had so many good friends. She will be free from any pain now. I can’t get time off on Thursday but know that I will be thinking of you all at this very sad time. Kay….you will be a great advocate for all those in heaven!! I’ll miss you!
To Kay and Bucks children.So sorry to hear of your loss.Yo ur Mum was one of a kind and always treated me like a friend. She always treated Don and I like friends who she was glad to see..You guys were so good to her.All my love BRENDA
Sincere Sympathy to the family of Kay. She was always a joy to meet with and visit. She was kind to me, especially when I lost my mom many years ago.Loved working with her at Fairview Home and her kindness to the Residents and her singing voice was a treat! Be at Peace.
Chris Ann, Kerry, Roger & Familes,
Thinking of you at this time, your Mom/Grandma was a wonderful lady and will be dearly missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing her. Our Condolences to you all.
So sorry to hear of your mother’s passing. I so enjoyed our visits together.
To Kay’s family,
I was saddened to read of Kay passing..she was a interesting person to chat with,
And although I only met her through Cheryl at PCH I was glad that we had a chance to visit, and she was a great friend to Cheryl.. I’m sure you and the rest of the family will miss her terribly..our greatest sympathies
Ralph & Jackie Matz / Griswold
Shirley Chris Ann Gary and family ..Remembering your mom and you guys and are so sorry to hear of her passing . I always wanted to go visit her and just never got there. We had a medical appt. today so were unable to attend the funeral. I have some wonderful memories to remember from your family. Love to you all. Terri McRae (nee Woodcock)
With deepest sympathy on the loss to your family Kay was a special person Enjoyed life to its fullest